No Bullsh!t.

For as long as I can remember, I have always wanted to fit in, wanted to ‘belong’. Subsequently, I’ve had low self-esteem, depression and anxiety for most of my life. Adulting And Life With No Bullshit. These posts are a way for me to document my journey one word at a time as I deal with betrayal, loneliness, healing and various aspects of my life and how I view it. Be prepared for No Bullshit, No Holds Barred.

{Episode 2} : Success And What It Looks Like.

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Success is yet another word with various interpretations and meanings to all of us, yet somehow, we tend to ignore and dismiss our feelings of success and blindly chase after the definition set by society. This week SOH dives into success and what it looks like, what drives us, and what …

{Episode 1} : “Friends, How Many of Us ‘Actually’ Have Them?”

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Welcome to the “official” first episode of No Holds Barred The Podcast. **update: now changed to Sum Of Her The Podcast** This week SOH starts off the journey by unpacking a few lessons and honest recollections on friendships. When it comes to friendships, I feel like we were set up, especially …

Hit The Reset The Button

Hit The Reset The Button

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“All through my life, I have been tested. My will has been tested, my courage has been tested, my strength has been tested. Now my patience and endurance are being tested.”
Muhammad Ali

Although life has no option to actually restart the day, week, month or year over like we can to our favourite song or movie, we still have the power to hit the reset button. Starting over fresh doesn’t confirm that you failed, it merely shows that you have reached a point of realisation where you realised that it is time to start over fresh.

Ctrl. Alt. Delete.

What The Cleveland Show Taught Me About Life

What The Cleveland Show Taught Me About Life

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 “Just when you think it can’t get any worse, it can. And just when you think it can’t get any better, it can.” 

― Nicholas Sparks

There are lessons to be learned and knowledge to be gained in everything we encounter.

In just about every episode of The Cleveland Show, Cleveland has some battle to overcome; something is always going wrong. No matter what the situation is, he remains optimistic and doesn’t treat it as if it is life or death.

The Journey To Giving Fewer Fucks

The Journey To Giving Fewer Fucks

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The journey to giving fewer fucks while still being me is definitely a road that is not easily navigated. It is one where many people stand on the sidewalk shouting advice and telling you what to do, who and what to care about, providing what they call “foolproof plans” to get …

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